Kindred Spirits

Bear with me today...I'm going into random thought mode :)

In life you come across so many people, some are aquaintances, some are considered friends, some are just someone you may have seen in passing or through another mutual friend or aquaintance... People are everywhere and your opportunity to change someones day should come easily. The kindred spirit type though, the ones that match your insides, those are the ones that you should hang onto forever. I believe that everything happens for a reason, I believe that people come into your life for a reason, a purpose. I've always trusted in the saying ‎"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life." I think that we have so many soul mates throughout our life, it would be hard to keep track of them all or count them for that matter. I have many friends that I have been close to over the years, most I keep in touch with maybe not on a totally consistent basis, but sporatically at least. I still have a few friends that I am close to, but not as close as sometimes I wish we were or used to be. The reality that I've had to come to terms with lately is that nothing is forever. As much as your relationship changes with your significant other, your friendships also change. You grow apart, you grow together, things change and people change. I guess my biggest worry is that people might change so much or get caught up in their own that I may be forgotten or left behind, however somber, this is reality, this is everyones reality. I'm becoming ok with this though, because as much as I think or feel this way, I'm betting someone else out there is feeling this way with me. I hope you all know that I love you now like I loved you then, and true happiness and friendship is knowing I'm here, whether you need me or not, I am.

Come home whenever you need to :) You know where I am.